Hey ladies,

Hopefully this will get you to the next phase of the ultimate BJ.

Deeep throating, is definitely for the experienced blow job gal. To get to this stage you have mastered the BJ, can swallow his load which by now is a craving for you but if not, at the very least routine. By understanding your anatomy further you will begin to understand the requirements that will allow you to take the full length of your mans hard cock into your mouth and all the way down your throat without choking. I have taken 10 inches with no problem and if the opportunity presents itself (God I hope soon), I will try 11 or more inches, but I am a dreamer lol.

The biggest obstacle is the fact that your mouth is 5 to 6 inches deep from lips to the back of your throat and here is a bend of almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down into your esophagus. So the first thing you need to do is get his cock past that angle without you gagging or gasping for breath, choking and ruining the moment.

In order to get to this point you need to practice, practice, practice. Your man must cooperate and work with you until you perfect the technique. To practice this, get in a position where you can tilt your head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best way I found to accomplish this position is to lie on your back on the bed with your head positioned just over the edge and tipped sharply back. This position will put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and will allow him to approach on his knees giving you full control over how much of his cock you can take. You can then gently guide him in and out of your mouth at your own pace by grasping his buttocks and pulling / pushing him. Keep a firm grip on his cock with your lips and keep your tongue as straight as possible. Don’t worry about licking or massaging with you tongue and lips at this point, you just want to get used to his length entering your throat.

It is possible that not everyone will learn the "Deep Throat" technique until several practice sessions such as this have been completed, but this should not stop you from practicing. Tell your man to be patient and that it will definitely be well worth the wait. You must learn to allow your throat to relax completely , become “open” and able for you to breathe through your nose instead of your mouth.

Pull his cock as deep into your throat as you comfortably can. To do this long enough for him to completely orgasm and cum down your throat is very difficult and may require much practice. It may be that you will be able to take his cock completely down your throat, but you will not be able to maintain a good grip with your mouth. If this is the situation, then pull, push and suck as deeply as you can until he is just about to erupt. As his cum starts to pump in to your mouth, pull him past your tonsils and hold him still for as long as you can. Next time you will know precisely what to expect and how to react. It is important for the first few times at least that you let him know that you must be in complete control of his cock in this situation because only you know how much you can comfortably take. If he is smaller than 7 inches it will be much easier. The sensation of his throbbing cock sending his warm load down your throat is very satisfying, at least it is for me.

After several practice sessions,you will learn to relax and will feel more comfortable each time. You will know precisely when he is about to cum and how much of his cock you can take and when to take it.

If you are feeling comfortable at this point, let him fuck your mouth at his own pace. It is possible to take a full 10 inch cock all the way past your tonsils and deep into your throat. If he is un-cut you will feel his foreskin peel back as it eases past the back of your throat just as it does when he first enters your cunt. As he fucks your throat, he will not be able to or want to hold back for very long. The pure sensation of his foreskin pulling back and forth deep inside your throat will bring forth his cum.

Another technique, which is not really deep throating but will satisfy those larger cocks just the same to clench your hand around his cock as near to the base as possible and as you go down on him with your mouth, pull slightly downwards and on the way up, pull slightly upwards pulling his foreskin back and forth over the corona. Keep your clenched hand close to your mouth and this will feel to him like his whole cock is engorged and again will produce his cum.

I believe the amount of cum a man produces is a direct result of how much pleasure you have given him. At least that is my experience and I have had a lot where BJ’s or deep throating are concerned.

Once you are comfortable and ready to go from practice to free style you will be able to do his cock comfortably on your knees and not have to be inverted on a bed. You will know what to do upright and how to take your man.

Once you are able to do this you have accomplished the ultimate for men. Now you can deep throat, breath and take him anytime for as long as he can remain erect. You can also introduce humming while deep throating him (hence the “hummer” terminology). Many men dream of women that can do this properly and he will likely prefer this to fucking your ass or pussy. I always like to hear what other women do to improve the experience for their man and may adopt new ideas into my regimen to see how it is so please let me know what you do and comment on my blog.

Ciao Tory xoxo

I was 14 and started going with my first real boyfriend who later took my virginity. We were inseparable, and were beginning to experiment more with foreplay and doing oral. On one of these occasions he was fingering me very hard and ended up causing me to bleed I later realized what had really happened and that was that I had lost my virginity to his fingers so later that night we went to his place and did the deed for real. It was time for me anyway. I had learned how to give a pretty good blow job and wanted to experience everything. His name was Josh and he had heard of the dare at the party and didnt care if it was true but looking back that probably what attracted him to me at first.

During our first time that night I remember looking at the ceiling over top of me as he entered me thinking to myself, "this kinda hurts" and " I don't think I like this." I was not impressed at all with my first time or any other times that I would have with Josh. At that time I didn't know why I didn't have the great time I was told about by my friends. One day he told me that his style is different then any other guys and that was instead of using his hips to manoeuver his penis into the girl, he would use his feet to push. I think he knew he couldn't please me and often told me during sex to just fake it so that he could think he was doing a good job. We rarely used protection (I know, STUPID!) And yes I did become pregnant and I thankfully mis-carried  at 4 weeks or so.

I was never very attracted to other guys after we finally broke up because of the experience but always had a mission to have my first orgasm with a guy. A couple of months after i lost my virginity we broke up. I think a lot of the reason I didn't like sleeping with my Josh is because he didn't appear to know what he was doing, like instead of grinding down deep into me, he would just slam aimlessly. Another thing that grossed me out was the fact that his penis and balls were so small, I know there's nothing wrong with that but for me this was a turn off. I had read and was told that this can be an issue which much later I learned was not what and guy had but how he used it.

Well here is my first Blog. My experience with them have been limited and I didn’t know what to say. I read one site that was way to cerebral and not fun at all. Others have been egotistic and yet others boring. I did see a blog that a woman was writing that was all about her “guy” experiences and that seems cool seeing as I am just out of a long tern relationship that didn’t end well. But I can’t start at the end right? So I will start at the beginning. My first experiences.

Growing up I was more of the odd ball, I wasn’t very tall but very skinny with short straight blonde hair. We didn't have a lot of money so I never had the name brand cloths or the great lunches like a lot of my other class mates had.

When I was five years old, I was diagnosed with a kidney disease, which resulted in me breaking out in hickey like marks all over my body more so in the warmer areas of my body than anywhere else. I spent a tremendous amount of time travelling to different doctors who at that time had no idea how to cure my illness. On a beautiful summer day, I became paralysed from the waist down from this disease, my parents got me to the hospital right away and there I stayed for eight days until I got better, and began to walk again. Luckily I was not plagued again after that for some unknown reason. Due to this disease though it did have permanent effects because I was taken off all dairy products my teeth were robbed of the calcium they needed to be bright and strong, needless to say this was another tease I was faced with during my school years.

I remained under weight until I was around 10 when I was diagnosed with Anemia and over active thyroid. Immediately I was placed on the necessary medications to build my iron up. Along with the medications came the diet, which slowly allowed me to gain the weight I needed. At the time of being diagnosed I was just over 4 feet and only weighed 60 lbs. The anemia was a result from the kidney disease I had in my younger years.

 I guess Im being to “real” I know you guys are waiting for the sexy stuff to begin and it will, I just needed to give you all a bit on who I was and some of the struggles I've had along the way. Anyway on with my history with guys……….

Well as luck would have it I got my period just before my 11^th birthday and my hormones started going full blast.Maybe it was the thyroid or the drugs or something else but needless to say I was one of those girls that wanted to experiment with sexual stuff early. It seemed like all I thought of was boys and I would catch myself staring at guys crotches alot. Yes even in grade 5 but I wouldn’t do anything about it until grade 9.

 Going through high school for the first 6 months was very trying for me. Here I was the short skinny girl with few friends and guys didn’t even look twice at me. I didn’t want to end up being the "square" one at graduation. I decided to get some professional help which was in the form of my older cousin, one of the popular people in the school. I was at a house party on March break with my older cousin who was in grade 11 and had invited me to after I begged her to. When we got there we had a few drinks and then someone started truth or dare and stupid me picked dare on my turn. The dare I drew out of the bowl was for me to blow a guy in the closet. One of the girls picked a new guy at our school who didn’t even speak English.

 So I was to perform oral for the very first time at 13 to a 17 year old guy who didn't even speak my language. Everyone started hooting and yelling and pushed us together and shoved us in a closet. Here I was expecting the worst and scared shitless. It was an odd experience, just him and I in a closet at a party and people chanting out in the room. I could hear the words "blow, blow blow" when he gave me a shot of something in a bottle. It was strong and calmed me a little We only had 10 minutes and there was no dam way I could walk out of the closet and not done the dare. He grabbed me and started kissing me, and then after a minute the time came for me to please him orally. He pulled down his pants for me, which he did pretty quickly. It was dim but I could see it. it seemed like a sausage and it was smoother than I expected as I touched it. I got on my knees and started licking and sucking it. After a minute he was rock hard and I could feel his cock throb as I slid my mouth and tongue on it. I had his thing in my mouth what seemed like forever not knowing what or when to expect of it. My jaw  was getting tired and I decided to remove my mouth  and rest for a second. I went to look out of the crack in the closet door and continued to pump his cock, when he came...ALL OVER THE FRONT OF MY BLOUSE!!  My God it was sticky  luckily my blouse was black and hid the wet spots well in the half light of the room. We cleaned up as much as we could and after I had got back to the group I told my cousin about my experience and that I officially done my first blow job. She just smiled and we kept on partying. Nothing else happen that night as I got to drunk and remember puking all over the bathroom. Needless to say it was my first full blown hang over as well. I felt like shit the next day and wanted to die but as I got better I knew I wanted more cock for sure.

Another oral experience was a few months later on camping on May 24 weekend when a friend and I had met these two older guys at a campground we were at with her parents. We met them at the park and we decided that later that night we would sneak out once her parents were asleep to go across the road into some bushes to hang out a bit and have a few beers. We were both very excited and whispered about who would go with who. Both guys were 18 and cute. Here we were a couple of  little whores planning our evening. Needless to say I was scared and excited at the same time.

When the time was right she and I left our tent to go over to the pre-arranged spot. Once we got near the spot it was so dark we didn't know which way we were going . The guys heard us and called to us we laughed and went across the road deep into the trees and bushes to sit and hang out, They had a small fire going  so we drank some beer the guys had stashed there and paired up, and after a while my girlfriend and her guy started necking so I decided to get some to and I grabbed my flash light and the hand of the guy I was with to go off on our own for a bit of fun.

 We got to a clear spot a few yards away and started kissing and making out a bit. He was feeling my tits and I could feel electric shocks going to my pussy. He laid me on the ground and started pushing his groin into mine but I wasn’t ready for that so I decided it was time to see what he had and grabbed his crotch and whispered into his ear that I wanted to blow him. I got on my knees as he got up and took off his pants. At first I couldn't see anything because he had so much hair and then all of the sudden his little friend popped out, and I couldn't stop my comment of "oh there it is!, as I giggled".  It was smaller than the one I blew at the party.

It was still such a state of discovery for me. I reached and started playing with it. It was so cool for me holding, stroking, a real live cock again. I watched it in the light that I was holding. And then he said it... "give it a kiss?" Pre-cum was oozing out the tip of his cock and I placed my lips against it. It was sticky on my lips and didnt have a taste to it. I then allowed his shaft to press past my lips and into my mouth. It got hard fast and grew in my mouth. I bobbed my head on it for a while. His moans were encouraging but I hardly noticed them I was so into feeling this cock in my mouth.

He took his cock out of my mouth and started to grab at my pants to take them off but I told him that it was as far as things were going to go that night. I got back in front of his cock and start sucking it again  He was cool with that. My cousin told me about how to deep throat a guy at the party, so I tried it. I deep throated him and it felt a little weird. I was amazed I didn’t gag when the head of his cock popped past the back of my throat, I felt my throat muscles relax and was pleased with the lack of gag instincts. I was so engrossed in this feeling that I was a little startled when he moaned and gasped loadly as he came immediately down my throat, I could feel his cock pulse and jerk on my tongue as his warm juice shot against the back of my throat. I gagged a little when he spewed his load but held my ground determined to do a good job. Needless to say I loved every gooey minute of it. I had a few more beers and blew him again that night before my friend and I went back to our tent  I didn’t see him the next day

We had a great weekend after that just my friend and I and although my friend just necked, my status rose a lot because I had given a guy a blow job. Once my friend told the other girls about it and of course the guys at school heard, I didn’t have any trouble finding a guy to go out with and my nick name in high school became ceebee which was short for SB which was an acronym for sperm bank. lol True.

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